EARLY EJACULATION: WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU FINISH SO QUICKLY
"Believe it women are aware that it happens every once in a while."
It happens to the best of men. You are with a girl and it's feeling good- really good. All of a sudden, way too good. Before you know it, you've concluded your business and you've barely made it past the one-minute mark.As she stares quizzically into your eye, you have a split second to decide what to do about your early ejaculation. should you try to play it off with a joke or genuinely apologies? These are some of the dos and don'ts of how to react.
1 Laugh it off: Trying to casually make a joke of the situation is a valid reaction. If you can get her to laugh about it with you, then it will just be an amusing hiccup in an otherwise pleasurable evening. Take a break have a good laugh and then try again. If she does not find it funny, you have two options 1 skip to "distract her"or 2) find yourself a girl that is not too uptight.
2 Apologies: Sure, you could apologies for your premature ending. It is a fine option as long as you don't grovel. A quick "sorry" wouldn't hurt but don't dwell on it. It doesn't really deserve a solemn declaration of regret. The only thing you'd really need to be sorry for is leaving her unsatisfied after your quick orgasm.
3 Pout: Grown men should not pout. It is not becoming at the best times, and certainly not appropriate on occasion of early ejaculation. Be a man suck it up and try again. It may be disheartening, but acting like a petulant two-year-old will guarantee that you don;t deserve a second chance.
4 Panic: Do not panic. In an event of an unexpected climax, resist the urge to flee the room in shame. Stay clam and try to act as if it is not a big deal. She'll still be out there when you're finished hiding in the bathroom, and your freak out will just make things more awkward when you finally chill out.
5 Try to explain: The phrase, "this never happen to me" should not escape your mouth in this situation. She probably won't believe it despite your insistence on the rarity of the occurrence. In fact, she might even think to doth protect too much. Believe it or not, women are aware that it happens every ones in a while she doesn't need an explanation.
6 Fake like it didn't happen: Faking an orgasm is one thing, but faking not having an orgasm is another is probably even harder. There is evidence left behind after all. So don't try and pretend it didn't happen; Just act like it didn't, instead of pausing and acknowledging it.
7 Distract her: If you can do this successfully then you don't have to border about her reaction. Just focus your attention on her pleasure, thereby distracting her from the fact that you're already finished.
8 Try, try again: No matter which of these reaction come to you at the moment of your untimely orgasm, you can save the situation by getting yourself together and starting from the beginning.
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it can be very embarrassing. you need courage to face her. however it will be better if both of you look for the solution together if it continues.
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